2021.10.28 12:11 Kdogg82 Im in Mexico City Airport heading to Chattanooga Tennessee. Is it worth me getting this Woodford reserve or is it cheaper in USA?
2021.10.28 12:11 Sooh32 My (30F) Boyfriend (30M) Wants Me to Lose Weight
So before the pandemic began, I was about 10 pounds away from my goal weight. Fast forward to now. After the stress of the past 1 1/2 years, working from home, being isolated from family and friends, and losing my beloved cat, I've put on about 30 pounds. I'm not comfortable in my body right now and definitely want to get back to where I was. That's not the problem though.
The problem is that my boyfriend only seems to have criticism about my body right now. He keeps bringing up how I need to work out and eat better so I can lose weight. This is a CONSTANT thing every single day. To the point that I dread when he brings up his diet and exercise plan, because I know it will inevitably lead to him telling me what I should be doing.
My boyfriend works out every day and is on a strict diet because he's trying to lose weight. I do my best to support him and tell him that I find him attractive regardless of his weight, but he's clearly unhappy with himself and how he looks. He won't accept compliments from me about his physical appearance. When I tell him that he looks good, he says, "I don't look good right now. Maybe once I lose more weight."
The thing that's really been bothering me lately is something he said the other day. He said that he doesn't want to be with someone who doesn't take their body as seriously as he does. He even referred to me as fat, which really hurt my feelings. I know I'm overweight right now. I get it. But he has no grace for me and is blunt about my body and my eating habits to the point that it makes me feel like shit. Is it so much to ask to be treated with kindness when you're struggling? I don't feel like it is, especially if someone loves you.
I guess I just want to know how I can fix this toxic environment. Having a partner who constantly criticizes me about my body makes me feel awful. And that's the real problem for me. Not my weight, but the fact that my boyfriend isn't treating me right. Because me losing weight won't change the way he thinks and acts, which is the core issue.
I need to figure out how to explain to him that the way he talks to me hurts me and my mental health. And that the stuff he says makes me afraid that he'll dump me for gaining weight and not "looking the way he wants me to", which triggers my anxiety/self-esteem issues and makes me feel insecure in our relationship.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
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2021.10.28 12:11 memebyblade The Lightyear Trailer We All Wanted
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2021.10.28 12:11 Cloud7070 Downvoting
So I’ve not been using Reddit that long and I’m wondering why most people are so rude if you’re wrong about something. A couple of times I’ve said something to agree with a detail in a tv show for example and gotten like 75 downvotes because I’ve apparently been wrong. Some even comment ‘shut up’ or a very cold and negative reply. It’s like they feel entitled to be rude cos I’m being a dummy.
So anyway my question is why are some people so easy to be negative instead of at least being reasonably polite? I bet they wouldn’t act like that in person and it’s not like I’m being obnoxious or hateful to get such negativity. Welcome to social media I guess lol
And yes you can troll this and downvote me. Let’s see how many I can get haha
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2021.10.28 12:10 WrongKielbasa How to handle boss that keeps putting me down for doing great work by telling me “I work too hard and over complicate things”?
To start I’ll say my boss is quite old school (they keep talking about retiring) and everyone is tiptoeing around them as they’re kind of a bull in a China shop. They can’t really use excel and hired me because I can use it quite well, along with me being licensed in my field.
My boss will use excel like a list, no VLOOKUP or anything, and do things 1 by 1. This results in them holding up projects for months and deliverables are constantly missing deadlines. It’s the equivalent of a modern accountant choosing to use paper and pencil instead of Quickbooks or SAP - and then putting an employee down for speeding things up with software.
I come in and finish what took them months within hours and give very detailed accurate reports. My boss can’t figure out pivot tables or anything…. So I’m told I make things too complicated and work too hard. Since I’ve been here since early summer others are seeing how I’m finishing projects my boss couldn’t.
How do I handle this? My boss clearly is lacking the technical capabilities to analyze the data we need to, and when I do it using excel properly, I’m put down for doing it. Almost like the bad students in class making fun of the over achievers.
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2021.10.28 12:10 Rustyswampfox Panic sale
2021.10.28 12:10 easy10987 Is my girlfriend lying when she says she “needs time to work on herself”
My girlfriend of 5 years is saying she needs to be alone and work on herself. Is this a legitimate reason to end a relationship, or is their a bigger motive behind it. She won’t listen to me no matter how much I try and convince her that she can do it alongside me.
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2021.10.28 12:10 SupportUseful Gem in the rough?
I keep seeing a bunch of meme projects come up so I thought while the alts are down might as well pick up some cheap ones. I am a bit fond of this one it’s kinda like a uh...love hate relationship from seeing all these other coins pump so much and so quickly...so...they just launched onto the V2 version of their token on both ethereum and polygon with a bridge set up to swap both versions
It's a gaming studio/publisher hybrid. Their goal is to put fun first in video games while also allowing you to play to earn. Utility based NFTs and cryptocurrency will be integrated with these games they produce. The lead of the project is a backend, frontend, software development kit and unity dev. he produced his own game on steam by himself which got like 150k+ downloads, worked on Dogecoin and digibyte in 2013/2014 he has worked on several different games with different studios while he worked with unity. They recently hired 2 new unity (game) devs, the team is doxxed and with a whitepaper released.
It's on a bunch of different dexs like polycat uniswap whitebit apeswap and quickswap and on their website it says they have a farm/staking platform that's a supporting system for their gaming ecosystem coming out in November
I found this too!
A few Qs and As from the team
Eoghan Q: What is it like working on Dogira compared to your time with Dogecoin?
A: It's definitely very different. Dogecoin in the early days was more a group of hobbyists learning what cryptocurrency was. The decisions made back then were on much more of a whim, with major things like hard forks not really seen as all that big of a deal.
Tech-wise, the two coins couldn’t be more different. Dogecoin was cutting-edge in offering around 30 Transactions per Second (approx. 1 min block time); Dogira was developed on the Polygon network, which recently hit 7,200 Transactions per Second during stress-testing.
The rate at which progress has been made, and at which crypto has garnered mainstream attention, has overshadowed every new technology to date—from the colour television, to the internet. It's a really exciting time to be involved in crypto.
Dan Q: How has your time in the Australian Army helped you in this industry?
A: I have served over 7 years in the Australian Defence Force as an Operations Officer, which has instilled some important core values: Courage, Integrity, Respect and Teamwork. These core values are imperative to building connections with those in the blockchain tech and cryptocurrency industries, especially because they can be rare in this space.
Specializing in operations helped me understand the bigger picture of operating teams and overall strategy which has allowed me to influence Dogira in the right direction.
Skyler Q: What’s the secret to a thriving alt-coin community?
A: Learning how to work with various personalities, cultures and time zones.
Elijah Q: You’ve jumped around in the communications industry for a few years. What drew you to the Dogira team and the crypto industry?
A: If I’m being honest, Eoghan was the major draw. Sometimes you can feel the talent dripping off someone, and something in my gut told me to pay attention to this person I’d never met. After that, I began to do what I could to learn more about crypto because I knew I wanted to support the team as it grew.
Now? I’m here, and getting the opportunity to support a project I can be proud of.
Mary Q: What drove you to become an artist and eventually make art for crypto?
A: Initially, I was born into a dynasty of artists. I had freedom of choice, but my dad drew me paper musketeer dolls when I was little, which amazed me. However, I began to seriously progress in art after experiencing a Mass Effect game, which prompted me to dream of working in the gaming industry.
My efforts were noticed by the artist whom I adored since childhood. Alexiuss invited me to his project and took me under his wing, teaching me not to hide my head in the sand when faced with challenges. Eventually, customers from the crypto space came to us, which ultimately led me to Dogira... almost like a series of delightful accidents.
Have some links!
Website https://dogira.net/ (being updated)
Experienced, doxxed team, former Dogecoin dev. play to earn, on polygon and ethereum networks. Links above.
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2021.10.28 12:10 dubbyco My mali seems to be abnormally small for 8 weeks. Has a good amount of teeth. Skinny paws and a small head. Normal?
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